Mar 28 2009
Square Pegs Stay Square Post Psychotherapy
“There is very little evidence to show that attempting to treat a person’s homosexual feelings is effective and in fact it can actually be harmful,” says Professor Michael King from UCL. “So it is surprising that a significant minority of practitioners still offer this help to their clients.”
More and more research strongly suggests that sexuality is not a lifestyle choice or even a “preference.” I refer to it as a sexual orientation. Trying to change a man’s sexual orientation from homosexual (attracted to the same sex) to heterosexual seems as implausible to me as would trying to change a heterosexual man’s orientation to homosexual. A square peg is a square peg. Society and individuals would no doubt experience a lot less stress if we could just accept the varied forms of human nature (those that cause no harm, it should go without saying).
Michael King, Lead author of a study reporting in, Therapists Still Offering Treatments For Homosexuality Despite Lack Of Evidence, has come to the same conclusion -
“The best approach is to help people adjust to their situation, to value them as people and show them that there is nothing whatever pathological about their sexual orientation,” he says. “Both mental health practitioners and society at large must help them to confront prejudice in themselves and in others.”
My agreement with King’s conclusions, however, doesn’t mean I have given his “science” a pass. No, I am skeptical. That is my default position. And while he and his colleagues did gather some data — discovering that of over 1,400 British mental health professionals questioned (survey?), one in sex reported having attempted to assist a client change their sexual feelings — many statements were made in the article that were not supported by data. Or at least the data wasn’t referenced.
For instance, in the lead paragraph above, the claim is made that using therapy to change a person’s sexuality can “actually be harmful.” How do they know this?
Our knowledge of ourselves and the universe is expanding every day. Curiosity keeps us vigilant for new developments. And whether you are a square peg or round, that intellectual curiosity is a very good thing.









